Well I live with my boyfriend right now, and we are doing this because we want to see how well we live together before we end up getting married. I think it's something every couple should do, it helps so much. I still don't see what this has to do with scams though?

Hmmm, this has nothing to do with being scammed. However, I do agree that couples should live together first! If I had lived with my wife while we were dating, I would not have married her! She was unorganized, didn't clean up behind herself on a consistent basis, and was very lazy. She perked up when I visited her place to trick me I guess. But living together is a very good thing to do before you make a mistake that will ruin the rest of your life!