I became BAD!
Posted on: Fri, 12/07/2007 - 05:08
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I became BAD!
I once lost my mobile phone in a public utility vehicle. My BF offered to me a new one. He told me that we will borrow money from his aunt. Later I realized that it would be hard for me to pay the money so I decided to back out. But to my surprise he told me that he will give it to me as his birthday gift to me. After a few months we split up. I was surprised that his aunt keeps on sending me messages asking for a payment. When I asked my ex bf’s cousins, the story turns out to be different.
His cousin told me that my ex bf told them that I want to borrow money in order to buy a new mobile phone. I was really surprised I hate him so much of doing that to me. Until now I can still feel the pain.
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If you told him that you didn't want him to borrow money from his Auntie, then the money is his problem, not yours. Talk to his Auntie about it and make sure to tell her that you turned down the chance to borrow money.
Also, you're not legally liable since you didn't ask for it, and its not on paper.
Yes your right. It's not on paper. They do not belive in me when I told them that it's a gift. They believe more in him than me. But one day my ex told his aunt not to bother me anymore. What I dont like is that he never admit that he gave it to me.
Sorry that your ex hit you up this way. I am sure that he changed his story with his aunt after the fact just to save himself some money, and the problem that you will have now is that it's your word against his-and he is her family. She is likely to take his word over yours.
You are exactly right. He managed to ruin my reputation on his family just to save himself. He is known to be kind and respectful to everybody. But what the people don't know about him is that he can make other people bad just to have some sympathy.
When you split and this happened you should have given him the mobile back!
Or told him not to ask his auntie I would die if my partner asked his family to borrow or give me money for a phone or any other item!
Give it back then you have a clear mind and its up to him to sort it least you know you did the right thing!
Most breakups dont work out that well in the end, so I am not too shocked here. I would have expected the phone (the payment for the phone) as a gift, but not him to be paying your phone bill - thats just silly.
I totally agree that the bills are your responsibility but the phone was a gift. You see it day in day out on shows like Judge Judy-he cannot take back a gift or expect you to pay for it just because you broke up.
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